De-stress

What do you do when you are so stressed? De-stress of course, at least try to. I have been under so much stress these days. How do we really get rid of the stress in our lives when we face the cause of stress everyday?

Well, sure, we should come to terms with it, treat it like a mature person would meaning deal with it squarely and look at the brighter side. Been there, done that, still doing it. That's what I actually do. Face what is stressing me head on so I can do something about it and then I can freely move on throughout the day.

Aside from that, other things work for me.

1. I take a deep breath, try to be still and pray. I am a living testimony that prayers work wonders. Whatever I'm about to do, I pray first. It gives me a light feeling knowing that I have my God with me all the way. Praying calms me down, this is my number one de-stressor. And it definitely works. Maybe not in an instant but you will see, things will just fall into their proper places. You will be amazed.

2. I exercise! I focus on burning calories and strengthening my muscles. I sweat it out. I feel so recharged after every exercise that I feel like I'm a new person after. I am reborn. :)

3. I do household chores. I cook even if there is someone else who can do that for me. I wash the dishes. I clean the kitchen. All these take my mind off whatever it is that is causing me stress.

4. I turn to multi-media. I read my favorite book for the moment. I channel surf until my mind bleeds and find something interesting. I surf the net.

5. I pour my heart out in my journal and then magically, I get to clear my mind and think straight less the emotional baggage of stress.

6. I think of my favorite things (think Julie Andrews, yes). I think of my dreams. I think of beautiful thoughts. I look forward. Remember, nothing lasts forever. Whatever is causing me stress, it won't last forever. This too shall pass.

7. I read inspiring stories. I look at inspiring people. They too get stressed out but they manage. So can I.

Sometimes it's easy to get rid of the stress we are feeling, sometimes not. But ask yourself, is it worth it? Is being stressed out worth all the trouble? My answer is a resounding NO. Give yourself a break.

In a nutshell.....Accepting what is.....doing something productive to counter stress while looking forward to a wonderful what will be.....praying.....calm me down.

Pixie Hair

I am loving the pixie hairstyle. I have experienced all sorts of hairstyles - long, bob, straight (as in relaxed or rebond), wavy as my hair is naturally wavy, big waves actually. But I have been sporting short hair for years now. I sort of got tired having my hair rebonded. For one thing, I look younger donning short hair.

Yes, I keep on trying to make them longer but it ends up short whenever I go to my hairstylist. Wavy hair needs so much maintenance. Now I want the pixie hair! If I'll have short hair, why not have it in style? Pixie haircut with highlights, in subdued colors. Just to make the pixie cut more alive. I just might do this before the year ends. It now fits my slim figure.

Isn't it fun to continue reinventing oneself?

I love these girls in their short, short hair, Emma Watson and Roxanne Ritchi from Megamind. Love their personalities too.

*Emma Watson's picture from Hello Magazine, Roxanne's picture is from nick.com.

Ready, Set, Go!

On this day of your life, Lynn, we believe God wants you to know ... that God will give you everything you need once you are ready to receive.

God is abundant and is only waiting for you to make yourself ready to receive what you truly need. Think now what can you do to make yourself ready?

I am so ready, God. :) I can feel it.

I am surprised with myself lately. I have longer patience. I am calm in situations which otherwise agitate me. I feel so happy with my husband and daughter. I am just so excited and looking forward to ---------------- this, these, that, those. Let me just keep them to myself and my God. :)